Reset your relationship with fear

Has an economic downturn, job insecurity and social unrest over the past year transformed your once civil relationship with fear into something that’s become a bit more abusive? Fear, with its leery disposition and sharp tone, may have forced you into the tight spot between a wall and a hard place, leaving you stuck and…

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Courageous leadership starts with what you say

“Discomfort is always a necessary part of enlightenment.” — Pearl Cleave You’ve probably been in a meeting where someone starts to share an idea, only to be cut off mid-sentence. That happened to one of my former direct reports during a meeting we attended together. He barely got two sentences out before the operations director…

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Candace Doby on stage at the IIDA -NY Leaders Breakfast

Does your organization have a Courage-Ready Culture?

Mark had been on my team for about a year before he got word his position in Nashville was being eliminated. Mark was initially offered a similar position in Chicago, which would put him in a great city, but would remove him from my team. Mark resisted. For weeks, he came up with different scenarios…

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Courage is disruptive. Here’s why.

I recently worked with a coaching client who wanted the courage to break up with perfectionism — a drive toward flawlessness that has increased among young adults by 32% over the last three decades. Throughout her career, perfectionism led her to pull long hours, second guess her judgement, work through vacations and say yes to…

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4 Courageous actions professionals want to take

The cat’s out of the bag. Employees are not working … … to their full potential. They’re not challenging half-baked ideas that they know won’t deliver anticipated results. They’re not raising concerns about gender or racial exclusion in the newest campaign. And, they’re not asking for help, giving critical feedback or raising their hand to…

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Candace Doby Confidence-Building

Confidence-Building is not romantic. Sorry.

I meet professionals from all over who want to know, “how do I build up my confidence … to become a better speaker, negotiate my salary, advocate for my ideas …?” Their curiosity is good, but they’re often a bit surprised when I politely tell them that there’s a better question to ask about confidence.…

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Candace Doby fears to manage for professional growth

3 Fears to manage for professional growth

I recently chatted with my friend Heather Hansen on her podcast, Elegant Warrior. Midway through our conversation, she asked if there was a common challenge I observed among coaching clients that kept them from flexing their courage muscle to own and demonstrate their brilliance at work. After a brief pause, I answered, in so many…

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workplace goals

3 Daily workplace goals to set for professional development

There are several reasonable workplace goals you could set to fuel professional progress. You could focus your ambition on managing a new project, expanding your influence or improving time management. The goals that deserve critical attention, though, are the ones that will help you consistently develop into a courageous leader — a leader who effectively…

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